Crabby Old Man

When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a small hospital near Tampa, Florida, it was believed that he had nothing left of any value.
Later, when the nurses were going through his meager possessions, they found this poem. Its quality and content so impressed the staff that copies were
made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital.
One nurse took her copy to Missouri. The old man's sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas edition of the News Magazine of the St.
Louis Association for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.
And this little old man, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author of this "anonymous" poem winging across the Internet.

Crabby Old Man

What do you see nurses? ...What do you see?
What are you thinking...when you're looking at me?
A crabby old man, ...not very wise,
Uncertain of habit ...with faraway eyes?

Who dribbles his food....and makes no reply.
When you say in a loud voice...."I do wish you'd try!"
Who seems not to notice ....the things that you do.
And forever is losing ...a sock or shoe?

Who, resisting or not...lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding....the long day to fill?
Is that what you're thinking?...Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse....you're not looking at me.

I'll tell you who I am .... as I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding,...as I eat at your will.
I'm a small child of Ten...with a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters ...who love one another

A young boy of Sixteen .with wings on his feet
Dreaming that soon now...a lover he'll meet.
A groom soon at Twenty...my heart gives a leap.
Remembering, the vows...that I promised to keep.

At Twenty-Five, now...I have young of my own.
Who need me to guide...and a secure happy home.
A man of Thirty...my young now grown fast,
Bound to each other...with ties that should last.

At Forty, my young sons...have grown and are gone,
But my woman's beside me...to see I don't mourn.
At Fifty, once more,...babies play 'round my knee,
Again, we know children ...my loved one and me.

Dark days are upon me...my wife is now dead.
I look at the future...I shudder with dread.
For my young are all rearing...young of their own.
And I think of the years...and the love that I've known.

I'm now an old man...and nature is cruel.
Tis jest to make old age...look like a fool.
The body, it crumbles...grace and vigor, depart.
There is now a stone...where I once had a heart.

But inside this old carcass ....a young guy still dwells,
And now and again...my battered heart swells.
I remember the joys...I remember the pain.
And I'm loving and living...life over again.

I think of the years all too few...gone too fast.
And accept the stark fact...that nothing can last.
So open your eyes, people...open and see..
Not a crabby old man. Look closer...see...ME!!

Remember this poem when you next meet an older person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within..we will all, one day, be there, too!

i usta work in nursing home

met some interesting older folks from all walks of life.. boy oh boy did they ever have some stories to tell. i used to take one of the ladies to my house after i quit working there.. i set it up with her family. she wasnt on any meds so when i asked her what she wanted to do the first time out with me it was she wanted to shop for some tight jordashe blue jeans and hit a bar.. so we did,. and we had a ball..i was kinda surprised when she ordered a "jack and coke" (she had several) she also lied to the hospital and told em she was vegetarian.. but she could eat a sh*t load of meat balls at my house.. and she loved arbys. she said she lied cuz she didnt like the way the hospital mutilated the meat. i got really close to her real fast.. and it about killed me when she died it was like losing my mother all over again., but at least she didnt have to die in nursing home. she died at home with her family around her. she was a wonderful woman.. and i loved her alot.. have lots of lovely funny memories of her.

I can relate...

I used to work as a dispatcher for an ambulance company. I did the occasional transport as I was needed. I routinely transported this one little lady to dialysis three times a week. I, like you, just loved this woman. I even spent some time with her and her family at Christmas one year.

I was working the day we got the call that she had passed, I even answered the phone, if I remember correctly. I was devastated. It just broke my heart. I went to the funeral. It was heart-breaking.

I didn't do many transports after she passed. I was afraid to get attached to a patient again.

THE SENILITY PRAYER

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked anyway, the good fortune to run into the ones I do, and the eyesight to tell the difference.

yup i hear ya

them old folks get right down in yur heart dont they...